Dead to me!

Well, ladies, as we surge towards the end of another year, I have decided it is time to clean out my closet. And NO, I am not talking about all of my FAB shoes, because HEY, why would I get rid of those, they never did anything to me, except make my feet hurt. And my mantra is fashion before function anyway, so it's not their fault. And they sleep in their cute little sleeping bags in my closet, not causing any problems. And NO, not my handbags, I LOVE THEM. And NO, I am not talking about my clothes either.

What does Fergie say...A Prada dress has never broke my heart before...So yes, I am talking about cleaning out the closet of those failed, maybe never really got off the ground relationships. Ladies seriously, you know the ones, those guys that you still keep in your phone or in the back of your mind as possibility for the future. Well, I have FOUR of them and YEP, you guessed it, DEAD TO ME!

One of them was previous relationship that ended shortly after it started. And, I always thought MAYBE we might go back, but after some recent events NOPE, DEAD TO ME! Another one is my Mr. Big and if you have read that blog post previously, you know the story...DEAD TO ME! Another one kind of started, but it was a long distance one. And SIGH, I still whole heart him, but I have to get past it, so yep DEAD TO ME! Lastly, and most recently, a very cute guy that doesn't bother to respond to text messages. And sure, my friends are sweet and try to tell me, maybe he didn't get the text...YEAH and maybe he is stuck under something heavy and can't get out. Bless you my dear friends, but let's be real, he is just being rude. I mean really, at least respond and lie to me, tell me you are busy, blah, blah, blah....DEAD TO ME!

The end of the year is new year's resolution time and a time to think about a new year and new beginnings. So ladies seriously, I know that there are many of you out there in a similar situation as mine. Stop hanging on to those toxic or phantom relationships. By doing that, you might open yourself up to meeting someone fabulous. If you don't, that is OK too, and just have fun with your friends, guys and girls. So repeat after me...DEAD TO ME! And yes, it might be a bit dramatic, but if he is dead, you won't "accidentally" text or call him in a drunken or lonely state. And if he is dead, he can't talk or text you!

And this is a good life lesson for all relationships. Ladies seriously, life is too short to hang on to toxic relationships, whether they are romantic or platonic. Let's all make a new year's resolution to rid ourselves of those relationships that suck the energy out of life. Choose people that give as much energy as you receive from them. Those are the solid, lasting ones. Thanks to my girls, Smiles and the redhead for that. LOVE YOU!

Cheers and CIAO BELLAS!